Changing Course

Pastor John shared a message the other day that really spoke to me, and I wanted to take this chance to share it with you. He started the service with a joke.

One night the captain of a tanker saw a light dead ahead.
He directed his signalman to flash a signal to the light which went.....
'Change course 10 degrees South.'
The reply was quickly flashed back...
'You change course 10 degrees North.'

The captain was a little annoyed at this reply and sent a further message.....
'I am a captain. Change course 10 degrees South.'
Back came the reply....
'I am an able-seaman. Change course 10 degrees North.'

The captain was outraged at this reply and send a message....
'I am a 240,000 ton tanker. CHANGE course 10 degrees South!'
Back came the reply...
'I am a LIGHTHOUSE. Change course 10 degrees North!!!!'

I thought this joke was hilarious. As I chuckled to myself at the joke, I also came to realization that this is a mistake anyone of us could make. What do I mean by this? I mean, often in life, we are set in our ways to do things a certain way. Or we plan ahead and we are determined to choose a certain path in life. Unfortunately, life doesn't always happen according to our plan. We don't always get into the school we want, or get the job we want, or even meet the people we want to meet. Even when we pray, we pray for the things our mind is set on. Then when things don't go our way, we get mad at God and we question Him why He didn't answer our prayers. The truth is, sometimes, we expect God to cater to our needs and our desires. As people, we all have to ingrained sense of importance. We sometimes feel that we are entitled to certain things in life. Then when life doesn't happen the way we want it to, we throw tamper tantrums and we question if God really loves us. If He really loves us, then why isn't He answering our prayers?

We are like the captain of the tanker in the joke, we have this sense of self importance. We believe that things need to alter their course in order to make room for our plans. But God is like the lighthouse, He doesn't need to move to make room for us. He was there first and everything is set into place. We expect God to cater to what we want, but why should He? He is the sovereign God! He sees and knows everything, and we will never be able to comprehend that. One of my favorite story growing up is a Chinese fable about a frog that lived in a well. The frog spent his entire life in the well looking up at the sky. He thought what he saw out of the well was the entire world. He thought he understood everything that happened outside the well because he spent his entire life looking at it. Then one day he got out of the well, that's when he realized how limited his understanding really was. Our understanding of our situations and everything around us is limited just like the frog. We only see a small portion of the big picture. So even if we think we know what is the best for us, that may not really the case. God said in Isaiah 55,

"For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, declares the LORD. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts." Isaiah 55:8-9

Just like the captain of a tanker cannot ask the lighthouse to change its course, we too cannot expect God to alter His plans to fit with our desires. Sometimes it's about keeping an open mind about our situation. It's knowing that even though things are not going the way we expected or hoped for, our God is in control. It's taking that leap of faith to trust in the seemingly impossible. God never said by coming to faith we will receive everything we've ever wanted, but He did promise this:

"And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose." Romans 8:28